Also if a child is educated gender-neutral from the first beginning, it has to deal with quite more problems than its peers.
To make it easier scientists wrote some kind of “instruction guide”, which may tell the family, how to deal with which kind of situation and with its help the Joneses deal with their problems really good.
But also if there is such assistance, the parents therefore have to be qualified as people who disregard roles and norms which are given in society.
But surprisingly X´s classmates do not really have problems, on the contrary, they admire X and try to act like it.
The boys are going to play with dolls, whereas girls are playing with cars.
Many observers of American society charge that society has created a distorted definition of manhood and produced a culture who, in their need to assert control over their lives, release their frustrations at the expense of women.
In both their essays, Lois Gould and Bernice Kanner address these gender oriented issues from the point of view of a male and female, for whom gender heightens the distortion and its consequences.They force “X” to go to a psychiatrist, to get to know if it’s a boy or a girl, because our society isn’t able to accept a gender-neutral child and the consequences for their own lives, which are influenced, too.Maybe the most important part is, how X itself copes with its situation.This already leads to another problem area: the whole society, and especially as shown in this short story the school, where no one knows how to deal with an “X”.Maybe it would be a good idea to give some “instruction guide” to the school, too.For me it is hard to imagine, how a child could identify itself as an “X” and to integrate in normal groups without getting personal problems.Although if a gender neutral education opens many possibilities to our world to slip out of our gender roles, the present society isn’t already ripe to destroy the given gender-barriers.The copy “X”´s style of clothes, too, just to escape their fixed gender roles.The persons, who really have a problem with “X”´s education are the parents of its classmates, because they can´t understand, what happened to their children and therefore don´t know, what to do and how to react.By using the narrative story structure, Gould is able to mold what she wants the reader to feel about her piece and the theme using words to, in a sense, take the reader on a guided tour of the problems with gender in society, while at the same time by maintaining an emphatic tone the reader stays amused and interested in the story.In Bernice Kanner's piece a totally different approach was taken in order to spread awareness on the issue of gender. In particular, Religion can serve to give guidelines for different gender roles in a community. While most modern religions tend to be a little of both, those that encourage natural gender roles tend to be more fundamental in belief while those that seek to control these natural tendencies tend to be more modern (or "western"). However, these types of gender roles lead to a very lopsided society in which men have all the power and women are subordinate. Another religion that seems to encourage evolutionary gender roles in Islam. Either they must adjust their policy (and theref...